PhillyBoy the Chef
There is something so fun and beautiful about creating a meal together, husband and wife. Or even friends. Or even alone. I love cooking. It is so relaxing and satisfying to create something new and different, or something old and comfortable, like a favorite pair of old jeans. I could share a new recipe today, but really I just feel like chatting.
PhillyBoy and I spent yesterday cleaning out our condo. And cooking. We have been wanting to get rid of stuff for a long time, and this is the only Sunday we have together without big plans for a few weeks. Apparently we lead busy lives. I have to admit, reading about Kath organizing her new apartment made me want to simplify ours. A lot.
In the middle of the week, after work, gym, and another feta salad, I swept through my closet at thunderous speeds, tossing old hot pink tank tops from the late 90’s and my old highwaters, which I was made fun of for wearing in 8th grade. I grew a lot that summer. My poor 8th grade self was stuck in highwaters all fall!
I put together a huge contractor bag of clothes to donate. Anyway, after my closet was in perfect shape I couldn’t stand looking at my jewelry in its case so I pulled every single item out and reorganized them. Of course all of this happened because PB was away for work. I didn’t end there though. After seeing how neat my closet was and how I could find ANYTHING I wanted in my jewelry case, I had to move on to the drawers. Four hours later I was exhausted, made myself a hot mug of water and collapsed into bed, content.
Tip: Don’t buy a lot of stuff! That way you don’t have to get rid of things very often. And when you buy something new, donate something old.
Saturday PB and I had a fabulous day, and PB decided that he would declare Sunday The day. The day to get rid of all the stuff we don’t need. In every room of the condo. So after a quick gym session, where I didn’t work out hard enough at all, we then spent the day on our feet, carrying heavy items, and clearing out our place. It looks SO much better now, and everything is so so organized. I already did this once with PB’s mom when I first brought my stuff down, but now that we know what we use and don’t use we did another big one. And it felt goooood.
Tip: Use storage containers to keep like items together. In photos above you will see my heels in my closet are all in containers, as are my scarves and winter clothes. Below, you will see that we use the space of the hallway closet door to store our reusable grocery bags and market shopping bags. In the photo directly above you will see some empty shelves. We will keep them this way as we know we will eventually need space for something.
Another Tip: Be RUTHLESS. That is really how you keep your home simple and neat. You get rid of (read: donate) anything that you haven’t used in a long time, won’t use, or isn’t in good condition. Even if it has memories attached. Just take a photo of something memorable.. takes a lot less space.
Of course we had to eat too! We did what I like to call the COOKING DANCE in the kitchen. We shared space, nudged one another out of the way, and created a fabulous meal together. We work around one another, together. I made my Healthy Eggplant Parmesan and PB made turkey meatballs with sauce.
We tossed the meatballs with some whole wheat angel hair and dinner was created. Cooking together in a small kitchen is really fun for me, but I think PB does not like the close quarters! He was in all his glory when I finally sat down at the island and let him have his space.
I love watching him cook.
Before I left on vacation I donated a TON of stuff. You are so right, you just need to be ruthless and get rid of it!
Hooray for cleaning out the house! It feels soooo good to have de-cluttered space. And I love that you all cook together. Josh and I need to do this more often
you guys are so cute 🙂 i love cooking with Nate…he’s so sexy when he’s chopping stuff, seasoning, and sauteing everything together 🙂
I could eat you guys up!
I hate clutter so I’m glad I never have to do clean sweeps like this. My boyfriend and I have a joke where we say that if we ever have to move out of our condo in one day, we want to be able to grab everything and jam. Neither of us is big into clothes or material items, so I guess it works out well.
Good job on your cleaning and I’m SO glad you donated everything!
you have to be in that throw out mood!
love the tip to be ruthless! I recently moved across the country and got rid of SO MUCH stuff! It felt good 🙂 and I don’t miss a thing!
The eggplant parm looks great- one of my favorite foods!
That’s awesome you guys cleaned out your condo. I’ve been trying to do that for 3 years. By the end of the summer it’s going to be done. It is. It is. It is. I hope. 🙂
Love the advice of taking a picture!
I know, right? Kath has been making me want to organize too and buy Mason jars for beans and matching spice jars for spices. Darn all the Type A bloggers 😉 PB is adorable.
Thanks for the organizing tips. I definitely need to do some of that! As for cooking with the hubby…it drives me crazy. He “taste-tests” the food so much that it’s half gone! I guess I am just a control freak. He’s an awesome cook and I’m a good cook, but I’d rather we do it one person at a time! ; )
I totally agree…but my MOTHER digs the stuff I try to throw away (old underwear) out of the trash! And now I just have to sneak my old t-shirts off to Goodwill before she takes heed!
I am blessed by not having two genes: the shopping gene and the gotta-keep-everything gene. I don’t get attached to THINGS.
Last night, hubby and I cooked a meal, just the two of us. He used to be a chef, so he usually cooks all the complicated recipes I give him, and I stick to the simple stuff like meatloaf and pasta! But, I too love the dance. We’ve been together so long now that I make a pretty good sous chef for him!