20 weeks: Halfway there!
In case you missed it…. it’s a boy!!!
I suddenly really feel like we are having a baby. Cue the panic!
This week has been so exciting and very bambino-centric.
Childbirth classes
Who knew these fill up and you might not get in to the dates you want? And who knew they could be so long? After my friend told me we had to sign up immediately I called and got us in. The class is 6 weeks long and 2.5 hours per class. I’m suddenly very nervous. That seems really long no? Apparently they also cover infant care, breastfeeding, and different labor scenarios. I hope we learn a lot because I know nothing. First class is on Wednesday!
Cribs!
We went to one furniture store and picked out our crib and accompanying furniture. We are decisive people. No purchase was made yet but as soon as we figure out the configuration of the room and how much space we really have we are going to go for it! I will share soon I promise. On the same note, what are the best baby sheet brands and crib accessory brands? We prefer items made in the USA or just, well, not China, when at all possible.
It’s a boy!
I am now picturing life with a baby boy and his little friends… A ton of our friends have boys and if they are anything like their dads they are going to be hard to control. I sense a lot of boy punkiness in my future.
Names
PB has a name he loves for bambino which I will not share. He has started talking to the baby with that name. Let’s say the name is George. PB now says “Morning, George!” “Love you, George!” “Do you think George looks like you or me?” “Is George wreaking havoc?”
You get the point.
Anyway, with so much George-ing around I was just bound to fall in love with the name. PB was sneaky and made that happen! So we now have a boy name we love love love!
My weight gain.
I still don’t have anything official from the doctor yet as our appointment isn’t until the end of the week. I’m gaining weight fast though. On Saturday the scale was 1 lb heavier than Friday and Sunday 1 lb heavier than Saturday. How is that even possible? I don’t understand. You could say it is water weight but this is what happened last month too. The scale jumped up a lot in just a couple of days after holding steady for awhile. I’m still measuring 7-9 days ahead so I feel ok about it, but as of this morning I’ve gained 11-13 lbs so far. Let’s see if the official doctor’s weigh in agrees with that.
Will I gain most of the weight in the second trimester and then taper off slowly or will I gain even more in the third trimester?
In combination with the scale jumping (not even creeping!) I have been exercising a good amount. Nice weather and new sneakers mean I’ve been sneaking out for walks at least every other day. I mean formal “this is exercise” walks and not just strolls to the market etc. It feels good! I did a bit too much on Saturday- lunges, squats and a bit more- and my legs were so sore from that. Otherwise it feels excellent to break a sweat and feel the sun on my face.
And um, when did this happen?
There is no mistaking that there is a baby in my belly, and I love the smiles I get from strangers now.
Sleepy time
I learned, after a very long night, a lot about getting a good night of sleep.
- I MUST exercise because when I don’t my muscles hurt so bad. MY IT band was KILLING me one night and then my inner thighs needed to be stretched and then my shoulder hurt. I just can’t get comfy!
- Bambino wakes me up between 3 and 4 am every night with kicks. Bad boy! I don’t mind that part though.
- Allergies suck when you can’t take any medicine for them, especially during the night when you can’t breathe.
- I need a snack before bed because when I don’t have one I wake up famished in the middle of the night.
- Pillow propping and tucking needed. More here.
- I’m a crab when I’m tired.
- HA!
Here’s what Babycenter says about week 20:
How your baby’s growing:
Your baby weighs about 10 1/2 ounces now. He’s also around 6 1/2 inches long from head to bottom and about 10 inches from head to heel — the length of a banana. (For the first 20 weeks, when a baby’s legs are curled up against his torso and hard to measure, measurements are taken from the top of his head to his bottom — the “crown to rump” measurement. After 20 weeks, he’s measured from head to toe.)
He’s swallowing more these days, which is good practice for his digestive system. He’s also producing meconium, a black, sticky by-product of digestion. This gooey substance will accumulate in his bowels, and you’ll see it in his first soiled diaper (some babies pass meconium in the womb or during delivery).
*For the record our baby was already 13 oz ten days ago and not 10 1/2 ounces like the average 20 week baby.
Random facts of the week:
Overall weight gain: about 11-13 lbs as of 20 weeks 5 days
Currently craving: apples with peanut butter, salads with lots of avocado, unsweetened iced tea (need to make some decaf asap!), pb banana smoothies, grilled cheese sandwiches from RyBread.
Snarfle fests: 2, one a big handful of Terra chips right after waking up from a nap and stolen from PB and the other a Take 5 bar with 2 Reese’s PB cups
Cry fests: a few, but it is understandable because it was Mother’s Day on Sunday.
Things I say to bambino: Mostly I say hi or apologize for sneezing. Is it weird that I do that every time? I sneeze, then apologize for jostling him. HA.
Foods that no longer taste funny: Filtered water! I have finally gone back to my Brita after switching to solely bottled water for months. The tap water suddenly tastes normal again and not like metal and mildew (EW).
Clothes I’ve purchased: 5 things. I already returned one, a shirt from Gap, and now I’m waiting on the rest to come in the mail. I hate shopping for clothes on the internet and I wish that more stores carried maternity in store. Also, I don’t understand how women bigger than me find maternity clothes because I am mostly buying size L tops already.
Edited to add: Also, I’m constantly super happy OR on the verge of tears. Feeling very hormonal this week.
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Previous weeks:
Week 19
Week 18
Week 17
Week 16
Week 15
Week 14
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You look gorgeous as always! And I love the updates 🙂
i can’t believe it’s already been 20 weeks…you’re glowing though!
Wow, you continue to look fantastic and so happy! I had no idea classes were so intense… I don’t think I’d have the attention span for 2.5 hours!
Hooray : )Halway there! Whoop whoop! Thats so awesome that y’all have picked a name too. We have a tentative name and a backup. But I could totally see both changing haha. The weight game can be pretty out of control- its hard not to check every day but probably best to keep it less than that (I’m still working on that part ;)). Glad you’re getting some walks in and that they’re feeling good. Those are some intense childbirth classes! We’re only taking three and their about 2 1/2 hours each- one on baby 101, one on breastfeeding and one on CPR/first aid.
You look GREAT! I love seeing what I have to look forward to in the next few weeks! And don’t feel bad…I’m only 16 weeks and I’ve gained 15 lbs!
You look fantastic and I am so jealous you guys are so decisive. I am now almost 26 weeks with no names narrowed down and still with alot to go to figure out the nursery (we have only bought the crib!). As far as weight gain, I think you’re doing the right thing. As long as you’re making healthy choices, you just have to leave it up to your body to do what it needs. I’m just now learning that lesson as the lbs creep up and up!
Maternity clothes are so lame and I am so with you on hating to order things online instead of in stores – especially when you have no idea your size or how things will fit you while pregnant! Good luck!
For me, and a lot of women I’ve talked to, there were a couple of months in 2nd trimester where you PACK on the pounds. But then it levels out again. So, yeah, I had a couple big months, but am still ending up at the recommended place. So no worries! Also, with it being warmer? I know I’ve been swelling and that’s heavier, too.
And, as for the clothes? SERIOUSLY, what do big people do??? I started as a size 4 and I am absolutely wearing mostly larges at this point. BTW clothing manufacturers? You’re missing a big chunk of the market!
You look beautiful and you are most definitely glowing! 🙂 I really enjoy reading your baby updates.
You’re so cute, love the bumb. where did you get the number counter from, love that!
@Brynn, Thanks! It’s from bbblocks.com.
lookin’ good, Mama!!!
Do you subscribe to zulily.com? BEST stuff/deals for Mamas and babies – TOO many cute clothes to mention! check it out!
and don’t worry about the weight gain! every woman gains more at different times. I gained a lot in the second trimester and then ended up evening out towards the end, with steady gains in the last few weeks. These growing boys have minds of their own! 😉
I used a Netti-Pot to deal with allergies/sinus issues when I was pregnant and it really helped clear me out. You might try it! Shopping for maternity clothes was the worst. And you’ll get so sick of wearing the same things over and over by the end. At lest I did…
Time is flying. You look SO fabulous!
I so look forward to your updates! I think it’s adorable that your hubby calls your son by name. I want to be able to do that when I know the gender of my baby:-).
You are glowing!! You look great Sabrina!! IT is such a wonderful exciting time and by you keeping track of it and posting pics and how you feel is a great way to reflect back. I wish I had done that!
YOu are GLOWING! I can’t wait to see you and the little bambino next weekend! You’re gift arrived in the mail last night! 🙂
You look beautiful!!
For my son’s nursery, I went the handmade route and customized his crib bedding through a seller on etsy. Also, Dwell Studio and Serena and Lilly make beautiful stuff (thought I am not sure where it is made exactly).
You are so radiantly beautiful!
Yes the netti pot works really well and also local raw honey will help if you have pollen allergies. I was on a high amount of prednisone for my crohn’s and my stomach was soo swollen I had to buy some Maternity pants to be comfortable. I found kohls had cute inexpensive stuff in there stores. I also got some used online like ebay or even free off craigslist or freecycle. Since you don’t need or wear them for too long people are always giving them away and there always like brand-new, I just make sure there non-smokers and give them a good wash in hot water.
@jen, Thanks for the suggestions! My problem with maternity stuff is that I need really dressy items which I can’t seem to find. Everything seems to be casual or work and not appropriate for weddings, church, showers etc unless I spend a lot. I have a friend who has a great dress I can borrow for a dressy wedding this summer, but otherwise I have had to just buy online and hope for the best.
Thanks for the honey suggestion- I can’t believe I never knew that! Very interesting.
halfway! time flies. you look amazing.
Love the updates, you are just glowing!
Sneaky sneaky with the name but oh so cute as well 🙂
youve got a gorgeous glow!
I always gained the most weight of my entire pregnancy during week 20 with BOTH kiddos. I gained 1/4 of my total gain in fact. I gained 5 lbs with little M and SEVEN with baby B. In one week! I never understood either.
@Tina @ Faith Fitness Fun, I feel SO much better with your comment! It just doesn’t make sense you know? I’m fine with gaining whatever I need to gain, but I definitely don’t want to be gaining several lbs a week several weeks in a row!! Hopefully I’m just like you and it’s a big week 🙂
@RhodeyGirlTests, My weight always went up the most during the 2nd tri and then leveled off in the the third. I just try to remember that if I’m eating when hungry, trying to keep mostly balanced meals, and staying relatively active my body will gain what it needs. For some that is more than others. And if you keep that approach it WILL come off just fine. 🙂
You look fantastic!!!! 🙂
I love these posts….so excitinggg. Now I’m super intrigued about the name! Wouldn’t it be funny if it actually WAS George, and you were trying to trick us into thinking it’s something else? 😉
I never thought about not being able to take allergy medicine while pregnant! Ahhh I’m gonna be in trouble (if and when I get pregnant). You are glowing, Sabrina!!
That is really funny with the boy name! I am excited to hear it. And I continue to love your bump. I need to see you before the baby comes!
I gained a lot in the frist trimester and 3rd trimester. Every body is different! Because of my history of eating disorders, I think by body gained a little extra “just in case” I starved it again : (
As far as allergies, have you tried a neti pot? It saved me during pregnancy!
You’re doing great!!
I love this. I’m getting all verclempt. 20 more weeks!!!!
You are looking gorgeous! I cant believe your already at 20 weeks. I feel like it was just yesterday that we found out.
Yeay for making it to the half way point! I was so excited when I hit 20 weeks. As far as the weight gain goes, at least for me, it picked up after 20 weeks then has slowed back down just a tiny bit. My midwife said the 2nd trimester you’ll see the biggest jump and it should slow down slightly in the 3rd. I stopped weighing myself except for my appointments. There were just too many fluctuations.
I’m looking for birth classes in the area with no luck, where did you find yours at? Thanks so much!
You look fabulous. For real.
Also, I am not sure where they are made, but I love the crib sheets from Land of Nod – a subsidiary of Crate and Barrel. Fab high quality stuff.
You look beautiful and healthy! I wouldn’t worry too much about the weight gain – within six weeks of having my daughter I lost 25 pounds! Now she’s 19 – time flies!
Congratulations! It’s my first time her but I can’t help but comment when I saw your preggy photos. We were just in the same situation as you several months ago and I’m sure you are experiencing the same as my wife did. That, I can relate 🙂